I’m reading Sink Reflections, the book by Marla Cilley (aka FlyLady). A friend loaned me her copy. There’s some interesting stuff in there, but for me, getting to it requires pushing past the anti-feminist slant and Christian stuff. I’m annoyed…
UUPoly Mention
AP article: Practitioners of ‘polyamory’ look for support at Unitarian convention I’m not sure why they put polyamory into quotes. It’s a perfectly reasonable word. It’s unfamiliarity to some people doesn’t invalidate it. If that were the case, most scientific…
Good Battle
All married couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of making love. Good battle is objective and honest—never vicious or cruel. Good battle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle…
Infidelity
Life is ever so much easier when you’re able to think in black and white. There was a time when I was absolutely sure that not only would I immediately walk away from any partner who was unfaithful to me…
More Interview
Questions courtesy of bouncepogo
Mono/Poly Couples?
I don’t think I’m on any of the poly LJ communities anymore, so I’m going to just ask here and hope for input from friends. I’m asking out of concern for people I love. (Nope, it isn’t me and Sam.)…
Poly Mugs
I like most of them. But I definitely want the “Communicate, Communicate, Communicate” mug, the poly flag, and the infinite rainbow hearts. They’re poly mugs, so it wouldn’t make sense to have just one, right?
PMM Browsing
Okay, dammit. sambear just informed me that he’d pimped me at PMM so I had to go look and see who he was talking about (turns out it’s an old friend—I found that very funny!). So I end up browsing…
Poly or Not?
I love my man. We’ve had problems, but I’ve never had a relationship this deep. Ever. Yes, we’ve had to really work at it, and we’ll have to do so—but yes, the good far outweighs the bad. Are there things…
Vibes
Last night, sambear said something that has me a bit confused, so I decided to poll y’all about it. Since he indicated that this happens online, too, it doesn’t matter if you’ve met me in person or not. Do I…