PMM Browsing

Okay, dammit. sam­bear just informed me that he’d pimped me at PMM so I had to go look and see who he was talk­ing about (turns out it’s an old friend—I found that very funny!).

So I end up brows­ing pro­files for the first time in a long time, and I’m dis­cov­er­ing a seri­ous NEED for fil­ter­ing OUT cer­tain pro­files. That is, in fact, far more impor­tant to me than any of the “I’m look­ing for” cri­te­ria. They don’t have selec­tions for the things that are absolute make-or-breaks for me, anyway.

I don’t want to see any­thing that men­tions dom*, sub* or sis­ter-wife. Ever. And if it were pos­si­ble to avoid every freakin’ idjit who’s look­ing for two or more women for a harem, I’d be real­ly thrilled.

If you’re actu­al­ly dom­i­nant, you don’t need to say so. I can’t respect any­body who would put him or her­self out there as a sub­mis­sive to any dweeb with ‘net access. I mean, how can you just “be sub­mis­sive” to all and sundry? Yes, I know that some peo­ple do have a real­ly strong bent to one side or the oth­er IF they’re into that kind of thing at all, but I can’t take the labels very seri­ous­ly at this point in my life.

Grum­ble. Grum­ble grum­ble. Grumble.

Edit: Brows­ing. Just brows­ing. I sent email to one cou­ple just ’cause I know them and want­ed to say hello—no wannas.