My pain is mine. My process is mine. My grieving is not about anyone else. I have to process the grief and the pain and the nasty stuff that wells up from time to time. I know from experience that if you don’t process it, if you don’t turn that nasty spiritual compost pile, it gets […]
For some reason, I’m thinking about infidelity again. No, there hasn’t been any in our relationship recently—certainly not that I know of! But once it has happened, it isn’t possible to “forgive and forget.” Anybody who claims to have done so is a liar. Forgiving? Yes, that’s possible. The forgetting isn’t. And it’s always going to be there between […]
Abuse Of Iraqi POWs By GIs Probed G.I.‘s Are Accused of Abusing Iraqi Captives U.S. reservists accused of prisoner abuse: Six from Maryland unit are seen in photographs mistreating Iraqi detainees Please be aware that the pictures at the next link are VERY graphic. I literally threw up. Pictures of Iraqis tortured by American troops Thanks […]
I made an LJ account for ridinrabbit, because she needs one. I don’t know that she’ll ever bother to use it, but I did.
I recently joined the adult_pagans community. I never could stand the nonsense that makes pagans so high-volume. I’m realizing now that I really want an “adult poly” community. That’s not quite the name I’d prefer, but essentially it would be a place where there aren’t endless questions about “is it poly/cheating/swinging,” terminology, “is it a […]