I recently joined the adult_pagans community. I never could stand the nonsense that makes so high-volume.
I’m realizing now that I really want an “adult poly” community. That’s not quite the name I’d prefer, but essentially it would be a place where there aren’t endless questions about “is it poly/cheating/swinging,” terminology, “is it a choice,” and “am I poly?” I suppose I’m wanting something like polyfamilies, but not just limited to the family paradigm.
Sam and I have referred to “punching the poly card” in the past. I’ve also stated that I don’t want to be anyone else’s poly training wheels.
Suggestions for a cool name?