I was going to post a link to a speech about polyamory given by valerie_white at the Bedford Lyceum. As I was reading it more closely than I did the first time, I was surprised to find myself reading my…
Article Update
I made a few minor changes to an article on my site, then realized I’d never linked it from any other page: Coming Clean: Transitioning From Cheating to a Polyamorous Relationship
Silly Me
Reading LJ Community Polyamory means daily exposure to train wrecks. I wouldn’t do it at all if it weren’t that I like to see what the denizens of LJ Community Dot_Poly_Snark are chortling about. Someone deleted a snark post that…
I Am a Bad Poly Person
About all I had to say in our family therapy session tonight is that I’m tired of talking. I’m tired of serious conversations. I’m tired of planning projects. I’m tired of processing, interpreting, mirroring—all of it. I’m just tired. The…
Revisiting the April Divilbiss Case: Alternative lifestyles and encounters with the state
A nice lady wrote to me recently, provoked by my post about our DFCS experience. She wrote about it on her blog, too. The Divilbiss case was a topic of constant discussing in forums related to polyamory back in 1999.…
Any of You Have Access to This Article?
Elizabeth F. Emens, Monogamy’s Law: Compulsory Monogamy and Polyamorous Existence in the current issue of New York University Review of Law and Social Change Stanley Kurtz at the National Review is foaming at the mouth about it. It sounds very…
While Waiting for the Cough Medicine to Kick In
I waited too long between doses, dammit. Anyway, several conversations in various places lately leave me with stray thoughts. It pisses me off when people link things like tantric sex with polyamory. It’s a relational style, not a religion. I…
Hmmm
I realized last night that I’m not a good candidate for a secondary partner for anyone—in fact, I’m damned difficult. I’m a crappy email correspondent. I seldom open a chat client, and when I do, I’m usually “invisible.” I don’t…
I Want This TShirt!
Polyamory is Wrong!
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It is most annoying to be attracted to the very same types of men as a friend who is more attractive and outgoing. Methinks I should turn in my poly card.