My pain is mine. My process is mine. My grieving is not about anyone else. I have to process the grief and the pain and the nasty stuff that wells up from time to time. I know from experience that…
Infidelity
For some reason, I’m thinking about infidelity again. No, there hasn’t been any in our relationship recently—certainly not that I know of! But once it has happened, it isn’t possible to “forgive and forget.” Anybody who claims to have done…
This Was a Long Day!
I feel like I’ve driven all over the world, though it obviously isn’t so. I got Katie to a therapy appointment and the allergist. I went to the bank. I picked sambear up from work, after which we explored a…
Monday Musing
You know it was a busy day that got out of hand when you start a post with the subject “Monday musings” on Monday morning—then don’t actually finish and post it ’til Tuesday. Well, I hope I get it done…
Well-Grounded Paganism
sambear wrote a good article on the subject this morning. Go read it!
Neat Comic
I don’t know where I found it, but I’m reasonably certain it was via someone’s LJ. Anyway, I like it, and I’m fairly sure that shadowkatt and mayremi will, too. The Edge of the World
Friday Evening
And I’m without my sambear. POUT! He’s still at work. I’ve gotten VERY spoiled because this is maybe the second or third time that’s happened with his current job. When he was at VNHS, it was a constant thing. I…
Teens and Driving
Getting a driver’s license has been a major rite of passage for American teens for decades. It’s a move towards increased independence and responsibility. Being able to drive means it’s far easier to get to a job, go out with…
Posting Here and There
I’ve been trying not to post if I’m just going to whine—why subject others to the negativity? Obviously, I slipped up yesterday. Happy thing—I didn’t take a BC pill this morning, and I’m not experiencing nearly as much nausea. Thank…
Security, Posts and Time
How has your use of LJ—specifically of security settings on your posts—changed over time? If it has changed, anyway. I started out making mostly public posts, then went friends-only for a time. Some things were tightly-filtered—and, in fact, a couple…