Maybe it’s just me

But does any­body else think it’s just a bit tacky for my moth­er to want me to come over and cel­e­brate my father and broth­er’s birth­days when I can’t even remem­ber how many years it’s been since they’ve cel­e­brat­ed mine in any way? She has the gall to be pis­sy because I said no, and I’m lucky if I get so much as a phone call, and that’s if my birth­day isn’t con­fused with the (more impor­tant) Marine Corps birth­day that’s close to it.