Actually just one answer this time. Anybody who didn’t ask yet, please go ahead. I do wish LJ would let me know when there are new responses to the poll.
11) What led you and your partner to a polyfidelitous relationship?
We got involved with a couple who are new to polyamory, and a closed relationship is what they want for now, so that’s what we have. In any case, we prefer a few very intimate relationships over a lot of “dating around” and fairly casual sex, which is what I’ve seen many poly people do. (Not knocking them, just not our preference.)