My pain is mine. My process is mine. My grieving is not about anyone else. I have to process the grief and the pain and the nasty stuff that wells up from time to time. I know from experience that…
Infidelity
For some reason, I’m thinking about infidelity again. No, there hasn’t been any in our relationship recently—certainly not that I know of! But once it has happened, it isn’t possible to “forgive and forget.” Anybody who claims to have done…
Adult Polyamory
I recently joined the adult_pagans community. I never could stand the nonsense that makes pagans so high-volume. I’m realizing now that I really want an “adult poly” community. That’s not quite the name I’d prefer, but essentially it would be…
Rant – the Flake Factor
Warning: This is a rant. I fully expect people to be unhappy about it. I don’t mind. Forward the link to whomever you please so that they can come flame me, too. If I were worried about such things, it…
Bracelets!
As sambear mentioned in a post today, we got our commitment bracelets yesterday! They’re sterling silver chains of triskeles. We’d been looking for some sort of commitment jewelry for a while, and didn’t find anything affordable that we both liked…
Morning. Barely.
theferrett does it again: Please Don’t Throw Me In The Briar Patch is an excellent article about getting out of bad relationships. I have new user pics. Yes, I got extra ones on my account. I remembered the coupons I…
A Rare Friends-Only Post
I have incredibly vivid dreams. I haven’t normally written them down or talked about them much. I’ll occasionally mention something that I just can’t get out of my head to Sam, or share something particularly funny with him and Katie,…
Wednesday So Far
Oh cool! One of my cousins, known online as Tha Wookie, has developed some Appalachian Backpacking Courses! Interesting read, although nothing new to me: Confessions of a Libertarian Polygamist Note to local dance studio: “Learn to hip hop here” causes…
And We’re Off!
Hope to see some of you over at ChocoLaté!
Something That Isn’t Political
Well, I suppose you could MAKE it political, but it isn’t overtly political. HOW COUPLES MANAGE PARENTING FORECASTS LATER MARITAL QUALITY, STUDY FINDS The results suggest that programs for parents-to-be should devote attention to how they will coparent together, Schoppe-Sullivan…