To Clarify

Last night’s entry is not an indi­ca­tor of any dra­ma hap­pen­ing. In fact, it’s part of ward­ing off drama.

If I don’t speak up about being tired of “talk­ing about the relationship(s)” or what­ev­er, I’ll even­tu­al­ly explode, and that WILL be dramatic.

Yes, hav­ing two pri­maries requires far more com­mu­ni­ca­tion, nego­ti­a­tion, and so on than hav­ing one. 

Because curiousmay9 and sam­bear have incom­pat­i­ble com­mu­ni­ca­tion styles, I end up act­ing as interpreter/moderator all too often.

They do work things out between them­selves when I’m not around. It just takes a lot longer to do so, with far more ener­gy expend­ed on both sides.

In fact, I should stop act­ing in that role when I am around, but I find it painful to hear them fum­bling toward what’s obvi­ous to me. If I get up and walk out, their focus changes to “What’s wrong with Cyn?” which does­n’t help mat­ters at all.

I occa­sion­al­ly bleed off some of the piss and vine­gar here, where it won’t do much (if any) harm. I hope the per­son who con­tact­ed me pri­vate­ly is no longer wor­ried. Nobody should be.