My pain is mine. My process is mine. My grieving is not about anyone else. I have to process the grief and the pain and the nasty stuff that wells up from time to time. I know from experience that…
Infidelity
For some reason, I’m thinking about infidelity again. No, there hasn’t been any in our relationship recently—certainly not that I know of! But once it has happened, it isn’t possible to “forgive and forget.” Anybody who claims to have done…
Americans Torturing Iraqi Prisoners
Abuse Of Iraqi POWs By GIs Probed G.I.’s Are Accused of Abusing Iraqi Captives U.S. reservists accused of prisoner abuse: Six from Maryland unit are seen in photographs mistreating Iraqi detainees Please be aware that the pictures at the next…
So There!
I made an LJ account for ridinrabbit, because she needs one. I don’t know that she’ll ever bother to use it, but I did.
Adult Polyamory
I recently joined the adult_pagans community. I never could stand the nonsense that makes pagans so high-volume. I’m realizing now that I really want an “adult poly” community. That’s not quite the name I’d prefer, but essentially it would be…
This Was a Long Day!
I feel like I’ve driven all over the world, though it obviously isn’t so. I got Katie to a therapy appointment and the allergist. I went to the bank. I picked sambear up from work, after which we explored a…
Eeep!
The catnip spray is missing. I fear Wizard has hidden it somewhere for his personal consumption. He’s already the craziest cat in the house!
Poetry: The First Fruit Salad
Have I mentioned how much I love having good poetry just appear in my email and LJ feeds each day? It is soul-sustaining. The First Fruit Salad by Joanne Limburg from femenismo One June night she left her husband sleeping…
QOTD: Erica Jong
You take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame. –Erica Jong
Health Stuff
I saw my rheumatologist yesterday to get the letters I needed for school. As I suspected, she doesn’t use real letterhead. Now, I can make up letterhead in MS Word that will look extremely professional, and nobody will know that…