Some People!

If you had an affair, online or off, with some­one, you know. If said per­son told you, “Look, my SO isn’t okay with this” and the two of you con­tin­ued with sex­u­al involve­ment, it counts as an affair. You cheated.

So how the hell could you claim that you did­n’t know it both­ered that per­son­’s SO when she found out? That is one of the lamest excus­es I have ever encoun­tered for any­thing. The lev­el of “it’s not my fault!” bull­shit involved there is astonishing.

When you fuck up, apol­o­gize. It’s a vital part of get­ting your shit togeth­er. When you apol­o­gize, you’re acknowl­edg­ing that what you did was wrong and that you are sor­ry that you did it. You’re say­ing that you will make a seri­ous effort not to do it again.

If you just feel a “sor­ry I got caught” then don’t both­er apol­o­giz­ing. You’d just be telling more lies.

If you’re over the age of 4 and you have to be asked for an apol­o­gy, it’s insincere.

If you can’t be both­ered to apol­o­gize, you aren’t tak­ing respon­si­bil­i­ty for your actions.