A (slightly edited) comment I left in LoveWithoutSex: Polyamory isn’t primarily about sex for me at all, but about multiple committed relationships with other adults that may or may not involve sex. I have two SOs who are not lovers…
Little Notes
We went to see a house with curiousmay9 today. It’s very intriguing. It can be hard to see beyond the fact that a house really, seriously needs a lot of cleaning and renovation, but it’s got good bones and a…
Poly Southeast Meet-n-Greet
We’re about to leave for the Poly Southeast meet-n-greet, and I thought I’d post a reminder. It’s 7pm to whenever the place closes at ChocoLaté on Shallowford Road in Atlanta. They’ve stayed open ’til 11:30 for us in the past.…
Yes, I DO Remember
Another one of those getting-along-with-Cynthia rules—one that my family of origin would do well to note. Don’t play crazy-making memory games with me. I had my memories questioned and denied so often in my early life that I: 1) Developed…
Sore Point Ex-SOs
Hmm. Is there anyone in your past who is a particularly sore point for your current SOs? Someone they don’t even like to hear mentioned, or come across reminders of? Is there someone in your SOs’ past who you don’t…
The Relationship Diet
I haven’t put the “relationship diet” article on my web site because Sam was going to try to market it to a magazine. I don’t think I’ve posted it here. If I have, please forgive me and attribute the repeat…
I’m Possessive After All
Today’s realization: I am possessive. Just not in an exclusive kind of way. Edit: Okay, I’ll explain a little. People who are family of choice are MINE. Pack, clan, whatever you want to call it. It would take a hell…
Protected: Offering
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Happy Divorce Day!
Oh—unless something weird happened yesterday, rasilio and telynor are divorced now. Best wishes to both as they move forward with the next stage of their lives.
Introvert Musings
I’m working out some personal stuff here, largely thinking out loud. Please feel free to just skip right on.