Grrrr

I find it absolute­ly infu­ri­at­ing to have com­mu­ni­ca­tion with some­one cut off, rather than pro­ceed­ing to work through an issue.

I’m nowhere near per­fect. I am an out­spo­ken bitch who holds very strong and often unpop­u­lar opin­ions on many things.

I do, how­ev­er, admit it when I’m wrong. And I do my damnedest to make amends for my mistakes.

It isn’t pos­si­ble to work through a prob­lem if the oth­er par­ty won’t com­mu­ni­cate. And to be accused of some­thing, then be refused access to the infor­ma­tion that would allow me to 1) ver­i­fy that this thing hap­pened; and 2) start work­ing on fix­ing the problem—that makes me crazy.

If you accuse me of something—even privately—you owe me the cour­tesy of com­mu­ni­ca­tion, at the very least. I would cer­tain­ly extend the same cour­tesy to you.