The ManDiet

I have referred to The Man Diet sev­er­al times as some­thing I have done and rec­om­mend. After explain­ing it sev­er­al times, I’ve decid­ed to write it up here and just refer peo­ple to the arti­cle.  I call it the Man…

On Therapy, Again

The most screwed-up peo­ple I’ve ever encoun­tered have also been those with the great­est aver­sion to the very idea of ther­a­py. One, in fact, has a pho­bia of men­tal health professionals—for her­self and for her chil­dren. That does­n’t mean that…

The Victim Culture

This began as a com­ment in a friend’s locked post. I’ve edit­ed it a bit since this is pub­lic, but there’s some­thing that has been on my mind since the flood of “No Pity, No Shame, No Silence” entries. As…

Moving Tips


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I post­ed part of this as a com­ment in hopeev­ey’s jour­nal, then decid­ed to stick it here. Hope­ful­ly, I won’t have to learn these lessons yet again next time around. What have you learned that isn’t here yet? 1) Declut­ter! Establish…

Mine

My pain is mine. My process is mine.  My griev­ing is not about any­one else. I have to process the grief and the pain and the nasty stuff that wells up from time to time. I know from expe­ri­ence that if…

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