My Sexual Identity Is “Sovereign”

Learn­ing to Love the Rain: The Queer Vital­i­ty of Sex­u­al­i­ty Beyond Identity
By Hanne Blank (misia)

In a cul­ture where sex, gen­der, and sex­u­al­i­ty are pre­sumed to be bina­ry in nature, an iden­ti­ty based on insist­ing that you be per­mit­ted to choose nei­ther, either, or both, at any time, with­out ask­ing for per­mis­sion or chang­ing stances in order to do so—is so fun­da­men­tal­ly rebel­lious as to be an act of out­right anarchy.

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