At the first session my life partner and I had with a therapist six years ago, trying to deal with issues that were largely caused by one of those DQs, I said, “The first step in treating snakebite is to…
Healing
I said this in a comment yesterday: I work through things by writing about them. I find that doing so with feedback from others works best. And hell, the only way that anything good can come of this nastiness is…
Mine
My pain is mine. My process is mine. My grieving is not about anyone else. I have to process the grief and the pain and the nasty stuff that wells up from time to time. I know from experience that…