Jumpiness and Nerves

Back to the NaBloPoMo prompts:
What do you do to cope when you’re nervous?

I have a whole mess of diag­noses, includ­ing post-​​traumatic stress dis­or­der and social anx­i­ety dis­or­der, so I feel jumpy and ner­vous fairly often. I’m on med­ica­tion that helps, and I have Ati­van that I can take if I must for panic attacks. But I try really hard to use the Ati­van, because 1) it can be addic­tive; and 2) it makes me sleepy. It makes far more sense to take advan­tage of the biofeed­back tech­niques I learned years ago to try to get my heart rate and breath­ing under con­trol. Cog­ni­tive behav­ioral ther­apy has also given me some valu­able ways to exam­ine the thought pat­terns that lead to panic attacks, so that I can try to short-​​circuit them before I get too wound up.

For less crit­i­cal nerves, I find it impor­tant to keep my hands busy. I usu­al­lly take a small stitch­ing project with me wher­ever I go. Hav­ing my hands busy and keep­ing my mind par­tially occu­pied takes up enough of my energy to keep me from get­ting too wound up in nerves, most of the time. My stitch­ing is the equiv­a­lent of other peo­ples’ doo­dling or fid­get toys.